Tuesday, December 23, 2008

What Obama's Election Really Means To Some People

The right is often trying to ridicule Obama by calling him names like The One or the Messiah. Even Elliot Stearns is fed up with what he feels is deification of Obama.

What Elliot or the baser bloggers on the right or even I can't fully comprehend is what it means to some people.

Maybe this, from Renee Crawford, will help:
My husband and I watched the 10:00pm pronouncement of our new president alone in our bedroom. We just sat there silent, he grabbed my hand as the tears started to run down my face and we let it sink in. After about 15 seconds though, I heard my father scream and we met on the stairs with him shouting and cheering and then, he grabbed me and broke down into tears. Watching my 77 year old father fall into sobbing tears when Barack Obama was elected president by the people of this nation was an overwhelmingly emotional thing for me personally.

My father actually started crying that morning. When I came down the morning of November 4, 2008, my father was watching the television with tears in his eyes. I plan to write an entire blog on my parents at some point (although this really should be a novel), but suffice to say that a 77 year old African American man who served his country as a hero in the Korean War only to come home to the severe racism of the late 1950's in America, who 10 years later married a white woman from Neenah, WI when that was illegal in 38 states, who raised 4 successful biracial children in a time when the national was in unbelieveable turmoil, who has been personally discriminated against more times than any human being should ever have to endure, and through all of it, became a leader in his community, fought on the front lines of the civil rights movement with his children at his side, a man admired and respected by all who know him, a suburban soccer dad, a grandpa extraordinaire, a father to all he knows, a husband of 42 years to my lovely and strong and beautiful mother, always keeping his sense of humor, his love for all of humanity and his love for living, to see a man I've only seen cry a few times in my 41 years and only at the loss of his closest and most adored relatives. To see my father openly sob as he said, "I never thought I could live long enough to see this." All those years of disappointment that he held to himself just poured out of those tears.

The tears were not entirely sad, they were full of joy, love for our country, patriotism beyond patriotism and love for all Americans. They were tears that all those who came before, those my father knew and worked with to make this country look beyond skin color, that their work was not in vain. They did something then so profound that the fruits of their sacrifices had taken longer than they hoped and shorter than they imagined. The tears were full of hope and optimism and dreams and they were followed by dancing, cheering, setting off fireworks, and we laughed and listened to our neighbors, friends, the students on UWM's campus as they did the same.
Do read the whole thing, then take some time to reflect on it. Then gripe if you want, but it will only make you look jealous and petty.

5 comments:

  1. But the news weeklies aren't run by African Americans.

    I understand the historic impact of Obama's election (as much as I can considering I'm not black in America), but that doesn't justify acting like the man himself is some sort of deity.

    In fact, I'd argue that depicting Barack Obama as a special case is actually damaging to African Americans, overall.

    When I look at Bill Clinton or George Bush, I think, "hell, pretty much anybody can be President"; but when we depict Barack Obama as a messianic figure we diminish the idea that any black man could be President.

    He stops being an African American and starts being a savior. And that's what I"m uncomfortable with.

    Certainly, let's celebrate the arrival of a black man in the Oval Office, but let's not elevate the man from being a Democrat to being divine.

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  2. I don't know Elliot. Do you think they are really deifying Obama, or do you think that you may be a little oversensitive to the hype surrounding his election. You gotta remember, besides already becoming a historical figure by being the first black president, the country has been steadily going down the tubes with the Iraq War and the tanking economy. People are not just wanting a change, they are feeling a little desperate for one.

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  3. Capper, hype should be capitalized, as the Hype around this guy, along with a lot of the media kissing his behind is beyond anything ever seen in my lifetime. Many of the critics, certainly not all, are using either Obama or some other pols glowing rhetoric, or the media sycophants words and running, sometimes too far, with them. Obama is just a guy, just an American, subject to the same failings and arrogance that all of us are. I have to agree with Elliot on this.

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  4. "Do you think they are really deifying Obama" Yes, there are people doing that. When you have people singing songs about him, see the T-shirts and sweatshirts I have seen, comments I have heard, there are people who think he is the Messiah.
    I think people have way too much hope in Obama and even if he is a better president than Bush (and at this point in time, except for security issues, Bush is bad, so it won't be too hard)he'll probably disappoint a lot of people who supported him. He is already drawing fire from other liberals who are probably testing him. Barney Frank's critism is probably a test to see what Obama will do.

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  5. Sorry, gentlemen, but I still disagree. I will grant they are focusing heavily on Obama, but, as I stated many times, he is an icon in the sense that he will be the first black president, which is not insignificant. Secondly, the country is in such despair from the war, the economy and everything else, people are hungry for any kind of hope.

    But the press fawned all over Bush in the post 9/11 days, and never even questioned him on Iraq until it was much, much too late.

    And as far as deification, what about Reagan? A guy that was pretty much a figurehead, ran up a huge deficit we never recovered from, and basically committed war crimes if not treason with the Iran/Contra affair. Yet the Republicans still think he is their ideal.

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